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Puppyhood is a magical time full of play, cuddles, and mischief. But it鈥檚 also a key time in your dog鈥檚 development. Many聽problem behaviors聽exhibited by adult dogs, such as聽separation anxiety,听reactivity, or聽fear of strangers, can be traced back to those early months. However,听raising a confident puppy can nip those kinds of problems in the bud. Read on to learn how to boost your dog鈥檚 confidence so they grow up to be a self-assured adult.
Catch Your Puppy鈥檚 Socialization Window
Although dogs of any age can learn new things, puppies have a critical time period where their experiences have lifelong consequences. This聽puppy socialization window聽only lasts for the first three months of your puppy鈥檚 life. During that time, if your puppy forms a positive association with something, that will carry through to adulthood.
However, missed experiences have consequences too. For example, if your puppy never meets people who walk with canes, when they encounter those people as an adult, your dog may feel uncomfortable or even anxious in their presence. The more positive encounters your puppy has in their first three months, the more self-assured they will be as an adult dog.
Introduce Your Puppy to New People
In their first weeks at home, you need to聽socialize your puppy to people of all different types. That will ensure that when your dog is an adult, they will see everybody as a friend. But that doesn鈥檛 mean overwhelming your puppy with lots of people at once. Have small puppy parties with just a few guests each time. Enrolling in a puppy training class can add even more people to their social calendar.
Allow your puppy to approach strangers rather than the other way around. This lets your puppy set the pace. Have the strangers聽reward聽your puppy鈥檚 interaction with praise and聽听辞谤 a .
If you鈥檝e already begun training simple behaviors, have the strangers ask your puppy to sit or lie down. Keep it positive, so your puppy enjoys the experience and builds confidence with meeting new people.
Introduce Your Puppy to Other Animals
It鈥檚 also important to聽socialize your puppy with other dogs. They need to meet all types of dogs: large, small, shaggy, hairless, and so on. And again, make those interactions pleasant for your puppy.
Keep meetings one-on-one at first. Make sure you don鈥檛 let the other dog bully yours. However, it鈥檚 completely normal for an adult dog to put an overexuberant puppy in their place. Supervise all interactions and ensure both dogs are having a good time.
Don鈥檛 forget about other animals your dog might encounter, like cats听辞谤 other household pets. Teach your puppy how to behave calmly around other pets and reward them for acting appropriately around those animals. And for dogs that might spend time in the country, include cows, horses, goats, and more in your socialization program.
Introduce Your Puppy to New Situations
The socialization window isn鈥檛 just for people and animals. It includes experiences,, too, such as new environments, different noises, and strange surfaces. It鈥檚 important to build your puppy鈥檚 confidence in as many situations as possible. That way, when they encounter those things again as an adult, they will be relaxed rather than fearful. It鈥檚 a lot more work to shift your dog鈥檚 emotional response once they鈥檙e grown than to introduce them to the situation as a puppy in the first place.
Think about all the things your dog might face over their lifetime. Work as many of them into your socialization as you can. Start small and build up as your puppy gets comfortable. In other words, to help them tackle the stairs, take one step at a time, rather than expecting them to master the entire staircase at once. For sounds that are out of your control, such as fireworks, consider exposing your puppy to a recording of the sound before the socialization window closes.
Teach Your Puppy How to Be Alone
An often-overlooked situation that puppies need to face is being by themselves. Although it鈥檚 tempting to spend every minute with a new pet, it鈥檚 essential to聽teach your puppy how to be alone. Otherwise, your dog will make their own fun: or even worse, develop separation anxiety.
Start with a safe confinement area like a聽听辞谤 . Then leave your puppy inside for very short periods of time. Be sure to give them something fun to do while you鈥檙e not there, such as chewing on a . This not only builds positive associations with being alone but teaches your puppy appropriate alone-time activities. Slowly increase the amount of time you leave your puppy until they are calm and confident by themselves.
Teach Your Puppy to be Comfortable With Restraint
Being , examined by a vet, or held by a groomer are all forms of restraint. And a dog that doesn鈥檛 feel comfortable being restrained is a dog that may react in fear.
Teach your puppy to feel relaxed during restraint with simple聽handling exercises. Start with gentle pats and pair each touch with a . Slowly increase the invasiveness of your handling until you can examine your puppy鈥檚 mouth, ears, and paws all while holding them still.
Allow Your Puppy to Set the Pace
No matter what new situation your puppy is facing, it鈥檚 important to avoid forcing them to go beyond their comfort level. One bad experience can set your puppy back and lead to problems down the road.
With patience, praise, encouragement, and rewards, most puppies will be confidently tackling new things in no time. However, if your puppy is overly anxious or shy, enlist the help of a dog trainer听辞谤聽behaviorist聽as soon as possible to boost your confidence-building program.