Puppies have a critical socialization period that starts around 3 weeks of age and goes up to when they鈥檙e between 12 and 14 weeks old. Studies show that a lack of positive interactions during this time and fearfulness in adult dogs.
Allowing your puppy to play with other dogs is a crucial element of proper socialization. Plus, it can also be great fun for them. But if play sessions aren鈥檛 managed and introduced carefully, they can do more harm than good.
It鈥檚 not uncommon for well-meaning owners to book a place at a one-off 鈥� and often chaotic 鈥減uppy party鈥� 鈥� or to head straight to the local dog park. But that鈥檚 not always the right approach. Instead, it鈥檚 best to do your research. Take time to prepare ahead of enrolling in classes or arranging playdates.聽That way, you鈥檒l be setting your puppy up for success.
Not All Puppy Classes Are Equal
When looking for a puppy class, it isn鈥檛 necessary to focus on a structured format, teaching just basic commands and obedience.
Casey McGee is the owner of and a coach and mentor for Jean Donaldson鈥檚 prestigious . She emphasizes the importance of positive socialization, supervised off-leash play, and understanding the basics of force-free training methods. 鈥淵ou have your puppy鈥檚 entire life to teach them how to hold a sit-stay. But you only have their first 18 (maybe fewer) weeks to teach them that the world is a safe and happy place,鈥� McGee explains.
McGee advocates off-leash play in a controlled environment. It allows your puppy to get feedback on their social skills in real-time from their peers where the cost of mistakes is still relatively low. 鈥淧uppies without adult teeth are incapable of seriously hurting each other. With appropriate supervision, nobody will become frightened,鈥� she says.
But supervised, rather than free-for-all, play sessions in a puppy class are crucial. 鈥淪hy pups need to be given a chance to watch and absorb rambunctious play vibes. They can then opt in when ready rather than getting repeatedly rolled, bitten, and chased, which will only exacerbate their fears,鈥� says McGee.
Research shows that dogs attending a six-week course, instead of no class or a one-off puppy party, were to strangers. It鈥檚 also best to complete the course, rather than dropping in and out for a couple of sessions.
Setting Up Puppy Play Dates
As well as attending classes, you might want to set up some puppy play dates with friends who have dogs. It鈥檚 best to start with one-on-one sessions in a neutral and safe environment. Meet up with puppies that are well-matched in terms of style of play and size.
Don鈥檛 get too caught up in catching up with your friends. Close supervision ensures the dogs will remain comfortable and have fun.
Be an Advocate for Your Puppy
The last thing you want to do when it comes to play sessions is force your puppy into it, especially if they鈥檙e displaying fearful behavior. If things are getting rough or if you think your puppy may be feeling overwhelmed, try conducting a consent test.
鈥淕ently hold back the dog who may be coming on too strong, and let the other puppy 鈥榲ote with their feet,'鈥� she suggests. 鈥淚f they come back right away to initiate more play, then they鈥檙e game. If they take that opportunity to get a drink of water, escape, or even just wander away, they need a break.鈥�
Don鈥檛 be afraid to advocate for your puppy in a class or play date environment. If they鈥檙e hiding behind you and another puppy keeps coming at them, ask their owner to step in.
McGee also clarifies that it鈥檚 okay for them to sit in your lap initially to take things in. 鈥淟et them join the fray when they鈥檙e good and ready, knowing they can come back to you 鈥� their safe spot 鈥� whenever they need to check in.鈥�
Understand Your Puppy鈥檚 Body Language
Another way you can protect your puppy is by understanding their body language. 鈥淚t鈥檚 easy to mistake growling, pinning, wrestling and biting for aggression rather than play. But, most healthy play involves one or more of those activities,鈥� McGee explains.
Subtle signs that your dog is fearful or stressed could include a tucked tail, trembling, hunched posture, pinned back ears, or whale eye. They may also display submissive appeasement gestures. Some common examples include excessive yawning, lip licking, sniffing the ground, or averting their gaze.
Is the Dog Park a Suitable Place for Puppy Play?
Although well-managed dog parks can offer benefits for confident adult dogs, they aren鈥檛 the best places to introduce young puppies to play. There鈥檚 a risk of your puppy contracting diseases before they鈥檝e completed vaccinations. Plus, controlling the set-up is more challenging. There鈥檚 also an increased chance of overly boisterous adult dogs frightening or even injuring your puppy.
McGee recommends avoiding the dog park until your puppy is at least 6 months old. 鈥淲hen arguments arise, dogs navigate conflict using a combination of body language signals and non-injurious anti-social behavior, such as growling and snarking,鈥� she explains.
鈥淧uppies who have not been previously 鈥榩added鈥� with dozens of positive dog experiences may understandably be quite traumatized by these sights and sounds. They can come away thinking that all unfamiliar adult dogs are scary,鈥� says McGee. 鈥淚nstead, let them acquire their social skills in a safe environment. If they develop positive associations with other dogs here, when something goes south at the dog park, they鈥檙e more likely to be able to shrug it off.鈥�